Get Over Him

It does sting, sure. Your boyfriend had been with you for quite some time and now both of you have parted ways. Surprisingly, you will now realize that you had immensely liked him all the while without you knowing that. As days pass the agony worsens. If only you could have him before you now, you will feel like screaming to him that you never would have got so much attached to him if only you knew that he would walk out of you. These are the pains that most people go through and there is nothing unusual about it. This is an issue that only you could sort out. Many have had the cool head to sort it out quite successfully and why not you.

First of all the top priority is damage control. Do not allow your health to deteriorate or take to excessive drinking. Regain your confidence slowly by concentrating intensely on your work. Your friends circle will offer the much needed support. You can go out with them and have fun with them and forget the pain inflicted upon you.

Once when things are back to normal you will be very much surprised that you have forgiven him. This is because you had allowed all thoughts on him to cease in your mind and no more fresh hate feeling was built up against him. This is the first step in winning back your boyfriend. Now all your thoughts with regard to him are in neutral mode. When you think of him only happy memories of the days you spent with him surface in your mind and slowly the mind begins longing for him. You can now genuinely smile at him if you happen to meet him. All your animosity against him is into the backburner now. This is the most ideal mental frame to start getting closer to him again.

You must make a pitiless analysis of the situation that lead to your separation. You would have noticed that even though he was happy in your company he wished to be left alone sometimes. It may even be that he wanted to spend sometime with some other girl and in spite of him revealing it to you honestly you grew suspicious and jealous. You tried to prevent him from meeting that girl and you wanted him to be running an errand for you at that time. At first he would have thought it as a mere coincidence but when you repeated it he would have walked out on you.

Have confidence that no other girl can win him over and never repeat your mistakes. Do not remind him of the past but post an email to him that you are quite happy right now with your friends now but at the same time make it clear to him that it would be more fun with him. Never reveal your desperation for him. This is a slow but a sure way to make him call you the next day.